The primitive style of crisis dialogue !!!
Al-Anbat - Engineer Hashem Nayel Majali
The feeling of unease when a person is upset, he becomes tense and violent in his proposal and does not know how to form his ideas and statements and does not determine any meaning of his desires and can not control his neural genetic genes , he feels this style of pleasure is thus emptying his negative internal charges when he attacks the other party who is in the placeof the accusation or default, that is to say that his words, style and behavior is not balanced, irrational and inconsistent with the degree of culture, scientific degree or experience and community experience in the art of communication and interaction.
We all know that refinement is one of the highest degrees of civilization in a person. It is the commitment to the rational style and logic that leads the person to the point of recognizing that the person who corresponds to him has the same rights in expressing in the same way and in the same way. But refinement teaches the person to discuss anything with full awareness, love, Peace and respect.
There are moral laws that regulate the practical and social relations between humans, but some people like to blow off their steam in a violent way to demonstrate to others by putting it violently in a way that is unconscious to a person who is supposed to be aware, especially when he reaches a position as representative of a wide segment of the Jordanian street, he is supposed to have a prestigious place. But at some point we find the voice of the primitive man who still lives in the depths and tickles his genes and it is still extinct despite the many years that passed, they are hidden despite the development and urbanization to find them dwell in his mind and his thoughts looking for the right moment to jump to the surface of the mind to express it after the release of moral constraints, he considers it a kind of emancipation in which he finds his comfort and feels so happy about what he said or done from impolite behaviors. He considers that this method serves him in his social life or process, for they are instincts and subconscious forces taking control, and he got used to using them when he discusses. In this case, the person lives in a state of unconsciousness, while the conscious person chooses his thoughts, feelings, words, and the ability to analyze, reproduce and express himself in a civilized way.
He manages himself and his words and makes the person integrated and well-adjusted with people around him, the person who does his work does not find a convincing explanation for it, it moves from the state of consciousness to the state of the unconscious, that is, when a person is in the case of unconsciousness, words and sentences disappear where his desires remain hidden in himself, a prisoner waiting the opportunity for some reason to free it from his restrictions for the freedom of expression, where there is no place for ethics or taboo, and no feelings of guilt or self-punishment on that behavior.
It is a disturbing fact and the unconscious of this behavior does not tolerate but confrontation with verbal violence or behavior and exploitation of mistakes instead of searching for solutions, and you find him handling an error by mistake.
We started to find and witness these characters in the dialogues and discussions when a crisis happens or any kind of disasters, and we find that he likes to appear on TV channels to release his internal mechanisms in a violent style.
In the presence of channels that give the appropriate space for that, to let the confrontation between the parties be, such as the state of confrontation between the patient and therapist, it is a humanitarian relationship we have to recognize its existence and that it began to prevail our society unfortunately in the dialogue of political, social and cultural forums.
Translated by: Yasmeen AbuBaker
